Blissfully Informed Hippie Chick

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Being Different: mental disorder or personality difference?

on July 18, 2015

I personally don’t believe autism, asperger’s, SPD, ADHD, etc are “disorders”. I think they are brain differences which have positives and negatives, just like every other personality type. Just because it’s a fringe subset doesn’t mean it’s not in the range of normalcy. What kinds of “disorders” would certain historical figures be diagnosed with if they grew up nowadays? Albert Einstein, Vincent Van Gogh, Galileo Galilee…every rule breaker, innovative thinker, outcast, oppositionally defiant person. And what if they had been labeled so much that their spirit was squelched? Or ignored because they were considered mentally disabled? These high needs children and adults are gifts to humanity if they are allowed to flourish. 

I’m so glad that I wasn’t labeled with SPD, ADHD, ODD, dyslexia, etc by my parents or teachers, as I’m sure I would be today. All the traits that make me who I am are not disorders or disabilities. They are my creativity, my unique perspective, my ability to switch quickly between tasks, my ability to blend flavors in cooking, my ability to smell impending electrical fire when a circuit overheats, my willingness to stand up for what I believe (even when it goes against the mainstream). If I had received extensive “therapy” as a kid, maybe I could tolerate light touches, maybe I could finish more of the projects I start, maybe I would be willing to do what everyone else does…but what would I have lost? No thank you, I’ll continue to learn to deal with my quirks and embrace that which makes me the unique individual I am.

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14 responses to “Being Different: mental disorder or personality difference?

  1. Dissilusioned Dad says:

    O.D.D. is the newest one I’m skeptical of. I believe a lot of these behavior disorders correlate to parent’s impatience and unreasonable expectations with their children. It’s a quick fix with an unexplained cause but no worries. The burden won’t be on the parent to modify their schedules or look down and make eye contact.

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  2. Lisa says:

    I completely agree with this! My son is high needs, very sensitive and can be difficult at times but it’s also what makes him a beautiful person. Labeling him would only tell him he needs to be “fixed”.

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  3. myzania says:

    I find this interesting. In my view, brain function etc. is a spectrum, with “neurotypical” towards one end (or the middle?) and neuro-atypical elsewhere…. I’m neuro-atypical, higher functioning in most regards but a bit disadvantaged in others. And so what? 😉

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